Should I Stay or Should I Go?

A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can - and Should - be Saved

by Lundy Bancroft and JAC Patrissi

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This warm, supportive, straightforward guide offers you a path to evaluating the dynamics of your relationship, so that you can figure out what needs to be done.

You will learn what kinds of work you need to do on yourself, and which pieces are your partner’s to do. Chapter by chapter you will be given the tools to grow toward greater strength and clarity inside yourself. Simultaneously, you will develop the ability to analyze your partner’s behavior and attitudes, to see whether his issues are really the greatest obstacle to harmony.

If, after following the exercises laid out in the book, you find that he does indeed have one (or more) of these four problems, you will be able to follow step-by-step instructions for getting him to the right help for his specific issues, and being able to tell if he’s serious about doing his work and making deep changes.


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